GOWN SHOPPING: DO’S AND DON’T’S
Here are some Do’s and Don’ts when you start thinking about shopping for your dream dress:
DO Book your appointment early
The cool November weather always marks the start of engagement season and subsequently the busy wedding dress shopping season! Most bridal shops are small with capacity to run one appointment at a time and Saturday slots are the first to get booked. During their busiest periods, (ie: after Christmas) shops often book 2 weeks in advance so keep that in mind when thinking about an appointment.
DO Bring That Camera and Snap Away
Seriously, I encourage it, but always ask if photos are permitted. It makes a huge difference to view your wedding dress options through a camera lens compared to a mirror. It is also helpful to see how the dress photographs from all angles.
DO shop for your body type
Trendy dresses come and go but it is always best to figure out the style that works best for you. It is important to focus on your personal style and what flatters you most. An A-line shape is great if you have wider hips, while column dresses hug your figure and look great on tall women or petites.
DON’T bring a crowd
I curse those wedding shows that encourage brides to bring an entourage of 20 people to your appointment! Too many guests brings way too many competing thoughts and opinions that you didn’t ask for! At our shop we only have enough room for the bride and two guests – no exceptions. It’s also perfectly normal to arrive solo; most are happy to consult with you one on one!
DON’T try on everything
Your appointment duration often averages 60 minutes which is enough time, I promise! Within this time frame you will likely try on between 2-8 dresses. I always encourage brides to visit a few salons first to get a sense of what you like. Not all dresses are samples, so salons respectfully request serious shoppers only.
DON’T worry about bridal sizing
I always have to explain that bridal sizing is 4 sizes increased from your street size. Once you get your head around that, you can check out all the wedding dresses in your size range you may browse during your appointment. Remember to pay attention to how it looks, not what the label reads.
DO have an open mind
At a glance, many of the dresses may not stand out to you on the hangers but once you have a dress on, it takes on a different shape and look and it can be a complete transformation. I always encourage brides to try on a few of the consultant picks during their appointment because sometimes you just don’t know until it’s on!